Ditch the toxic dating cycle & step confidently into your secure-love era.

The Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program 

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girlies who are sick and tired of the dating rollercoaster.

→ Sick of swiping right on Mr. Wrong

→ Convinced you should be married by now (but “all the good ones are taken”)

→ Tired of feeling like you have to change who you are to be “more lovable”

→ Constantly sabotaging perfectly healthy relationships

→ Starting to think you’ll never find a loving partner

I’ve been there. Best part? There's hope, and this program is it for you.

You are not unloveable or unworthy of love — and there is a healthy relationship out there waiting for you.

Listen up, ladies

You are not unloveable or unworthy of love — and there is a healthy relationship out there waiting for you.

Listen up, ladies

You are not unloveable or unworthy of love — and there is a healthy relationship out there waiting for you.

Listen up, ladies

Your brain just needs a little re-wiring.

LICENSED CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGIST + ATTACHMENT STYLE EXPERT + RELATIONSHIP COACH

That means less of this:

I’m Dr. Morgan, and I’ve helped thousands of women heal their hearts and find secure, fulfilling relationships.

❌ Doubting your self-worth
❌ Relationship games
❌ “Catching flights not feelings”
❌ Situationships
❌ Settling for less than you deserve

And more of this:

Feeling confident and worthy 💕
Attracting emotionally available partners 💕
Finally enjoying your dating life 💕
Building securely attached LOVE (effortlessly) 💕
Deeper connections based on mutual respect 💕

Let’s paint a picture of future you

This isn’t just some dream scenario.

This is the reality of becoming the securely attached version of yourself.

Every day you wake up with peace in your heart, feeling loved, emotionally safe, and excited for the day.

You no longer feel intimidated by the biological clock ticking away…

He kisses you on the cheek and says: “You mean so much to me. I love you, babe.”

Finally, you don’t feel like you have to hide your relationship anymore or feel embarrassed explaining to your family why you’re single (...again).

Your relationship continues to exceed your expectations, defying all of the relationship models you saw growing up.

The Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program will teach you how to attract your emotionally available dream partner and form an authentic, securely attached relationship that lasts.

If you’re jealous of all your friends' happily-ever-afters and asking yourself, “How do I find MY person?”....

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That’s right. My dating life, just like yours, was a nightmare. Here are some of the low-lights:


  • Finding out that a partner was seeing multiple other women behind my back
  • Filing a police report after my toxic narcissistic boyfriend took things too far
  • Panicking so hard over a healthy relationship that I dumped him for watching baseball
  • And 🤦‍♀️ chasing a man down the street in cork wedges!

I've been right where you are

The struggle was real.

But finally, I hit a tipping point. I started therapy, took my first-ever hiatus from dating, and shifted my graduate studies to attachment theory and trauma healing.

A new chapter unfolded in my life — one overflowing with happiness, security, and emotional stability.

It was then that I realized my life's calling: to assist women in making the same transformation I experienced. This is what led me to create the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program.

The 4 core principles of Empowered.Secure.Loved.

Ever felt like your own thoughts are holding you back from the love you deserve? E.S.L. Relationship Program will guide you in releasing past traumas, creating space for love to thrive.



2. Release Your Past

Over the next 8 weeks, you'll dive deep into attachment theory and explore your unique attachment style. Through personalized exercises, you'll finally shed those toxic dating habits, so you can move forward with a new mindset.



1. Understand Your Attachment Style

Your attachment style is the missing piece to the dating puzzle.

If you don’t release your past trauma, you will repeat it.

In this phase, you’ll learn how to embody secure attachment, no matter what relationship triggers come your way. Soon, you’ll be confidently navigating the dating world — and even enjoying every second!



4. Embody Secure Attachment

If your brain associates intimacy with pain, you will always sabotage healthy relationships. In this course, you’ll discover how to leave those limiting beliefs behind and form new ones. This is the beginning of your healthy relationship era.



3. Rewire Your Belief System

With secure attachment, your relationships will go from impossible to effortless.

Say no more, i'm in!

Speak to an E.s.l. expert

Your beliefs shape your reality.

E.S.L. week by week

Weeks 1 & 2

  • Module 1: The Foundation
  • What we’ll work on:

A sneak peek into the program...

  • The Morning Alignment
  • The Relationship Inventory
  • Non-Negotiables & Standards
  • Rights in Relationships

Weeks 3 & 4

  • Module 2: Restructuring Your Belief System
  • What we’ll work on:
  • Beliefs About Yourself
  • Beliefs About Relationships
  • Is This Serving You
  • Repetition Compulsion
  • Forgiveness Practices

Weeks 5 & 6

  • Module 3: Attachment Theory
  • What we’ll work on:
  • Attachment Theory Review
  • “Secure You” Exercises
  • Attachment Theory X Mindfulness Self-Compassion
  • Co-Creating Security

Weeks 7 & 8

  • Module 4: Dating Mindset Tools
  • What we’ll work on:
  • Dating Mindset 101
  • Assertiveness Training
  • Navigating the Early Stages
  • Dialogue & Healthy Conflict Navigation
  • Pacing & the Define the Relationship Talk
  • Red Flags/Yellow Flags/Green Flags
  • Values & Compatibility

Let's do this

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LIFE BEFORE E.S.L.

LIFE AFTER E.S.L.:

Hear Their Stories

“I finally have self-compassion and like I know my beliefs.” 

“Life was darker. Almost like the light had been burnt out.”

“I have life again. I feel lighter and freer. My relationships have improved and my perspective has changed. I am empowered!” 

Miranda went from “like her light had dimmed” to “empowered and free.”

“I’ve learned that dating should be fun! I now feel like a love scientist. This program has also helped me to stop, think, and listen before I enter a discussion.”

“I had difficulty with expressing what I want and need in relationships.”

“I am much better at expressing what I need and establishing boundaries.”

Jennifer went from struggling to assert herself to confidently setting boundaries.

“I learned to love myself for who I am. I’ve always been great at masking myself and struggled with people pleasing. There is so much freedom in accepting who I am. It's truly a gift.”

“I was feeling low and my anxiety was at an all-time high. I was struggling in most areas of my life. I’ve tried traditional therapy but it didn't provide enough actionable steps.”

“I’ve figured out a better work/life balance and my relationship with my family has improved. I’ve learned strategies I can use daily to help me stay on track and bring me back to myself when I’m feeling anxious.”

Kristin went from feeling anxious to at home with herself.

“I finally feel like my worth is not defined by others’ opinions of me. I can confidently say I’m loveable and I’m worthy of a healthy relationship.”

“An abrupt breakup shattered me. I felt completely lost and broken. I couldn’t understand why it was so hard and painful to let go. I had no sense of self-worth and felt unlovable.”

“I discovered patterns in my relationships and finally understand why I feel the need to be chosen rather than choosing a partner that’s good for me.”

Shannon went from feeling unlovable to knowing she’s worthy of healthy, secure love.

“The mindset shifts I’ve experienced have impacted not only my love life but also my relationship with my family and friends. I feel like I have finally become the woman I’ve always known I was meant to be.”

“I was sad, lonely, and confused. I kept dating the same man with a different haircut. It left me unfulfilled and like maybe I was meant to live this life alone.”

“I love myself now! Like what?! I’ve begun dating again and I know my true worth. I’m now meeting secure and confident men, which shows me I can and will find my perfect love at the right time.

Hillary went from feeling unfulfilled and lonely to loving herself.

You being here tells me you’re ready to get off the dating rollercoaster and attract the love you deserve.

You being here tells me you’re ready to get off the dating rollercoaster and attract the love you deserve.

Don't wait another moment to start living your best life.

A quick 5-minute application is all we ask. This will give us all the details we need to tailor our support to your specific needs.


Step 1: Apply

Your next steps

Check off Step One

Then, hop on a zero-pressure call with one of our amazing program directors to make sure this is the right fit for you.


Step 2: Breakthrough Session

Congrats girlie! Now that you’re part of the E.S.L. family, get ready for:
  • 1:1 coaching for customized support
  • Twice weekly group coaching calls
  • Lifetime access to the E.S.L. online course materials
  • Our private E.S.L. members-only Facebook Group
  • Access to Dr. Morgan and all our amazing coaches
  • Exclusive offers on our other services
  • Continued support after you graduate from the course!


Step 3: You’re in!

What’s the time commitment per week?

How is coaching different from therapy?

Will I get access to 1:1 coaching?

Backed by science and created by a clinical psychologist, the E.S.L. Relationship Program is the only of its kind that guides you through a transformative journey, rewiring your brain for secure attachment, and empowering you to become your best self, so you can effortlessly attract your emotionally available dream relationship.

How is the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program different?

FAQs

Is this just another cookie-cutter program or will it be tailored to me?

How is the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program different?

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What’s the time commitment per week?

How is coaching different from therapy?

Will I get access to 1:1 coaching?

Is this just another cookie-cutter program or will it be tailored to me?

How is the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program different?

Our program is personalized to each person who enrolls! We start by having you fill out a quick application so we can understand you better and tailor the support we provide to fit what you need. This approach has helped hundreds of women transform how they see themselves and attract the healthy relationships they deserve.

Is this just another cookie-cutter program or will it be tailored to me?

FAQs

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Yes! You have access to 1:1 sessions with any of our qualified, trained, amazing coaches as needed throughout the program. We also offer at least two interactive group coaching calls each week for extra support and community!



Will I get access to 1:1 coaching?

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What’s the time commitment per week?

How is coaching different from therapy?

Will I get access to 1:1 coaching?

Is this just another cookie-cutter program or will it be tailored to me?

How is the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program different?

Both therapy and coaching focus on awareness, but coaching also gives you clear steps to move forward. Many of our clients also love how coaching is straightforward, focused, and gets results quickly. Some even say they've learned more in our 8-week program than years of therapy!



How is coaching different from therapy?

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What’s the time commitment per week?

How is coaching different from therapy?

Will I get access to 1:1 coaching?

Is this just another cookie-cutter program or will it be tailored to me?

How is the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program different?

The program is designed to fit into your schedule, but we suggest committing at least 30-60 minutes/day or a few hours each week to get the most out of the program.



What’s the time commitment per week?

FAQs

Experience the transformation

Talk to an Expert first

What’s the time commitment per week?

How is coaching different from therapy?

Will I get access to 1:1 coaching?

Is this just another cookie-cutter program or will it be tailored to me?

How is the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program different?

  • You ARE worthy of love
  • You ARE deserving of healthy secure relationships
  • And you CAN rewire your brain for healthy love


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